How often have you wanted to say, “You’re not the boss of me!” And you’d be right. Ultimately, you’re always the boss of you. Several years ago my world imploded – relationships, job, finances, home, health and then my self-value. It took some time for all those things to re-new and re-balance and, for the most part, they have. The exception being my self-perception. Following those shake-ups in my life, I recently realize I’ve been waiting for those missing aspects of myself that I so admired prior to the implosion to return – confidence, perseverance and most of all strength.
I kept saying to myself, “I want to be who I was. I liked those things about myself, they sustained me and my success.” My latest ‘ah-ha’ moment was a real awakening – focusing on resurrecting the past has been wasted energy and time. Instead of lamenting the parts of my I thought I’d lost, I needed to step into who I was becoming. And, those aspects I so admire – confidence, perseverance and strength – aren’t missing, they are simply being reinvented as I heal and evolve.
The feeling that without them I was no longer powerful, or even capable, was an illusion. Now I know they never left, in fact they are present in more powerful ways than ever as I continue to change and grow. The same goes for you. Remember that you are your own boss and those inner aspects you so value remain with you.
Love & Spirit, Kimble
P.S. If you are feeling like a part of you is missing, have faith and know that what seems to be missing is really just hidden away, eager to be resurrected.
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